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How To Be A Lady Who Leaves Emma Heptonstall @DivorceAlchemy #AuthorsSpotlight #BizRocks #DigitalMarketing for #WomeninBiz

How To Be A Lady Who Leaves

by Emma Heptonstall

Can you share a bit about your back story with us.

I’m a former lawyer, family mediator and divorce coach. I specialise in supporting ladies who want to leave their husbands make smart emotional and financial decisions on divorce.

From my legal and mediation experience, I knew that women often feel disenfranchised in the divorce process. Many stay in relationships that no longer serve them for far too long. It doesn’t have to be that way.

How and when did you know that you wanted to write a book?

I’d been divorce coaching for approximately two years when I began to seriously consider writing a book that would support women with the legal and emotional aspects of the divorce process. Nothing else like it existed for the English market. There is still an assumption that women don’t leave their husbands, but they do!

I knew that writing this book would also raise the profile of my business – which it did!

Tell us about your book.

How To Be A Lady Who Leaves by Emma Heptonstall #AuthorsSpotlight #BizRocks #DigitalMarketing for #WomeninBiz

How to be a Lady Who LeavesThe Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready is a practical guide to the divorce process in England & Wales. The first section of the book is all about the decision to leave and being sure that leaving is the right decision.

The book then outlines the divorce process in England and Wales, including chapters on financial disclosure, children, family mediation, taking care of yourself during divorce and how to move forward.

With action steps, exercises and case studies of coaching clients, How to be a Lady Who Leaves the Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready is in it’s 2nd edition.

The book was also an Amazon best seller in September 2017.

What were the hardest things you faced whilst you were writing it?

The most difficult aspect of writing my book was time! I’m so grateful that I worked with Karen Williams of Librotas. Karen supported me every step of the way, keeping me accountable and motivated, ensuring that I made the time I needed to get the manuscript completed. It took me 366 days in total!  Karen’s team then supported me with the publishing and marketing – all I did was write!

What were the best things you experienced during the process?

The best thing about writing me book was holding the first printed copy in my hand! I couldn’t quite believe I’d done it. The process taught me a lot about myself – that I can achieve whatever I want.

The initial proof readers gave me constructive feedback to improve the book and the confidence to know that I’d written a book that women wanted to read.

What’s next for you?

The impact of writing my book on my business has been phenomenal. I’ve featured in the iPaper, You Magazine and on BBC Radio to name but a few. Working with clients who only found out about divorce coaching through reading my book is still such a thrill! I’m seriously considering writing another book in 2019, but I’m not able to share about that just yet!

Can you share your top 3 #booktips.

1) Create a plan

2) Use a mentor

3) Get support to publish

How can people connect with you online and find out more about your book?

Emma Heptonstall, The Divorce Alchemist is a recovering lawyer, family mediator and divorce coach specialising in working with ladies who want to leave. A certified MBit Coach, with a diploma in counselling skills, Emma is also an NLP Master Practitioner.

Emma developed Divorce Alchemy to help transform the divorce experience of women who feel trapped in unhappy marriages through guilt, lack of access to financial resources and fear. It doesn’t have to be that way.

The author of the Amazon best seller How to be a Lady Who Leaves – The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready, Emma works online coaching women across the world in 1:1 and group coaching programmes.

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‘The Author’s Spotlight is run in conjunction with Librotas, supporting authors to write and publish their best business building book’.

About Karen Williams

Karen Williams is the Book Mentor at Librotas. She and her team work with business experts who have a story to tell or a message to share. They take their clients from idea to publication and marketing, ensuring that they write a book that helps them to attract more clients, build their credibility and grow their business.    Karen is the bestselling author of Book Marketing Made Simple, The Mouse That Roars, Your Book is the Hook, How to Stand Out in Your Business and The Secrets of Successful Coaches.

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